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"Winning Sports-
It's More than Just the Score"
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Winning Sports – It’s More Than Just the Score
If the antics and excesses of sports sometimes cause you to doubt their value, an event occurred a few days ago in a rural Washington State middle school, that illustrated the true potential of public school sports.
In brief, when a local middle school wrestling team showed up at an interscholastic match, the visiting coach was asked if he might have a wrestler on his team willing to wrestle a developmentally delayed home team student. Coach John Graff thought that one of his wrestlers, 12-year old Connor Sherwood, was the kind of student capable of ensuring the well-being of his opponent. Conner, described by his coach as a "go-getter" who'd only lost twice the entire season, accepted the challenge, instructed only to not humiliate or hurt his opponent.
Originally, the contest was scheduled to occur at the end of the evening, but when Coach Graff noticed some of the crowd leaving he urged that the contest be held immediately. The next match on a second mat was put on hold, and Connor and his opponent Karter began their match. Quickly, Karter's teammates surrounded the mat, and joined by fans in the stands started cheering and clapping his first time performance.
No discussion between Coach Graff and Connor was exchanged about planning the outcome of the match. A surprised audience was mesmerized as points between the wrestlers went back and forth until the final seconds of the match. Well, you can read the rest, and also watch a video that we were able to secure. Enjoy!
Steve Jefferies
pelinks4u, Publisher
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Feb. 25, 2008
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Letter to the Morgan Middle School Principal
My name is Michael Denny, and I am the middle school wrestling coach at Housel Middle School. Last night (January 22nd) we hosted teams from Selah and Ellensburg in a three way meet. There were 66 matches during the course of the evening, but I wanted to write you to share our feelings about one match in particular.
Housel Middle School coaches contacted the coaches from Morgan Middle School to try and set up an "unorthodox" match for one of our wrestlers. You see, we have an eighth grade student/athlete who has cognitive and physical disabilities who has turned out for wrestling this season. His parents only wanted him to take part in wrestling as a "manager," and maybe get some time on the mat during practice to feel more like he is part of the team and get a chance to participate in a sport like his older brothers. Our wrestler has been practicing each day for the past two weeks, and was looking forward to a match though we were very skeptical about the possibility or wrestling someone from another team. We knew he would not be able to stand up to the physical rigors of an actual wrestling match, so we asked Coach Graf if there was anybody on his team who could wrestle our guy and assure us of two things: First, we needed our wrestler to be safe, and second, we didn't want the match to be a mockery or embarrassment for either wrestler or the schools they represent.
Coach Graf contacted one of the Morgan Middle School wrestlers, Connor Sherwood, and asked if he would be willing to participate in a match. He asked Connor if he would be willing to assure us of our wrestler's safety and dignity. We assured Connor that he would definitely win the match, but that we wanted our wrestler to have a chance to wrestle in a "real" match. Connor thought about the situation, and indicated he was willing to participate in the match. We set the match to take place at the end of the night after all other wrestling had finished.
Coach Graf approached the Housel Middle School coaching staff toward the middle of the second round and asked if we were ready to wrestle the special match because he wanted to make sure the crowd did not leave before they wrestled. The match started off how I expected, with Connor taking it nice and slow with our wrestler. They traded control back and forth, and Connor allowed our wrestler to work his moves and use moves that occur in typical matches. All of the coaches, wrestlers, parents, fans, and officials knew what was happening and we were enjoying the moment, though we knew it would not last much longer.
Wrestlers from Housel Middle School began lining the mat and chanting the name of our wrestler. Wrestlers and coaches from all three teams were watching from their seats and the edge of the mat. Fans in the crowd were all watching, and eventually standing up the see how the match unfolded. As time started to run out we expected Connor to begin to work toward the win, but it became clear that something very special was about to take place! Connor was keeping the match close, but our wrestler began to build a lead as the final seconds of the third round came to an end. Connor kept a close eye on the clock and made sure our wrestler finished the match with a 9 to 8 victory!
I have been involved in wrestling for nearly 20 years as a wrestler, official, and a coach. I can honestly say I have never observed this kind of maturity and selflessness from a wrestler Connor's age, or any age for that matter. In one match, Connor was able to give our wrestler, his parents, our school, and our community something to have and cherish for the rest of our lives. There were few, if any, dry eyes in the gym. As I walked through the door this morning the news of the match quickly spread through the office and the teachers lounge, and the majority of responses were a teary eye and an emphatic "WOW." As a matter of fact, I have pulled the blinds and shut the door just to write this letter because it is still such a moving experience and memory.
It seems in today's society we teach our younger generation to "go for the win," "don’t give up," "winning is the most important thing," "don't give an inch," but last night we saw what is good about school athletics and the promise of tomorrow's leaders. Connor could have easily taken our wrestler down, pinned him quickly and painlessly, and it would have been recorded as just another match. Instead he and the coaching staff made a decision that will forever change everyone who watched that match last night.
I commend Coach Graf for his continued leadership and development of these fine young men, but I most importantly want to thank and pay tribute to Connor for his thoughtful, caring, and compassionate match! This is the kind of story I as a coach have always hoped to share with others. This is the type of match that gives us so much hope for the younger generation, and this is the match that shows why wrestling is the oldest and greatest sport.
In Wrestling,
Michael Denny, Wrestling Coach
Housel Middle School
Prosser WA
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Karter's Parents Comment…
Our son Karter is special: he is developmentally delayed and has the mentality of a 6 year old. He does not know that he is different from anyone else who he goes to school with. His classmates are very supportive of him, which makes us parents feel secure when he is out of our sight at school. His coaches are also very supportive of him and encourage him to participate in practice and learn wrestling.
A young man from the Ellensburg team agreed to wrestle our son in an exhibition match on Tuesday. Our coach explained Karter's situation to the referee, and with help from him and Connor Sherwood, Karter won the match by 1 point.
This young man, in the eyes of all who witnessed this event, and all that have since heard of him is the #1 HERO in our book. For Connor to agree to this is both very mature and admirable. He made our son's year. It was a beautiful thing to watch, and we will never forget what memories he has given our son and us.
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Final Thoughts...
It's tempting to dismiss this story as a heart-warming, but not "real" account about school sports. But doing so completely misses the point. On the contrary, what happened at this wrestling match illustrates exactly why sports belong in our public schools. Where else do young people have more opportunities to develop and express respect, empathy, care, fair play, honesty, responsibility, and a whole host of other personality characteristics all parents would love their kids to have?
Good coaches do this daily, recognizing that the main reason they're there is to guide youngsters on the way to becoming good citizens. Winning games, trophies, and championships is just one measure of a coach's success, and in truth the outcome over which they have the least control. Ironically, as we saw in this story, sometimes it takes a 12-year old to open our eyes and remind us what coaching school sports is really all about.
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Sportsmanship Remembered 3/4/08
After reading the previous article about a wrestling tournament and the sportsmanship that was displayed, I remembered something that I witnessed. Like the participants, spectators, coaches and parents at the wrestling match, I will never forget what I saw nine years ago.
The two boys who were involved went all the way through the New Fairfield school system. I knew them in 3rd, 4th and 5th grade and knew at that time that they were both very special young men.
MHHS has been doing the mile run for as many years as I have been teaching here. For some it is a great and welcomed challenge. For others it is a dreaded activity. The students train for the run in class and on their own. It is a part of the President's Fitness Challenge, which is participated in all over the country.
The two 5th grade students were outstanding athletes. They were also very competitive and worked hard at whatever they did. They were practiced runners. At that time, they were probably the two best runners in the grade and their classes ended up running at the same time. It would be a great contest!
The conditions for the run were perfect on that sunny day. I was across the track from the finish line. As the forty eight students ran, Brian and Andrew were obviously in the lead. I'm sure they were thinking about bettering their previous mile run scores and maybe even setting a new school record. I watched as they picked up the pace for the last half lap. They ran right next to each other and gave it all that they had. About twenty yards before the finish line, while running at top speed, Andrew tripped and fell. The friendly rivalry was going to end with Brian finishing first and sadly, Andrew would not get his own best time. Instead, what happened was the display of maturity, compassion and the most incredible sportsmanship that I have seen. When Andrew fell, Brian looked back, saw Andrew was down and he stopped. Brian turned around and ran back to help his friend and see that he was alright.
Neither boy finished the mile that day. The other students ran by, finished and got their times for the Fall mile run. Brian and Andrew did run the mile on another day. Honestly, I do not remember how they did. They probably do remember. I'm sure that they, their moms, who were there, and many others will not forget what did happen that day.
Later that day I happened to go to Stew Leonards and ran into Brian, his brother and his mom. As I was telling her about her son and what he did that day at the track, I had tears in my eyes. She did too and said “I know, I was there and saw it too.”
Brian and Andrew have been outstanding athletes through middle school and high school. Andrew set records for himself and his swim team and is now finishing his first year of college and swimming there. Brian is in a West Point prep school and will be a cadet at West Point next year. Brian played football and was on the track team in high school.
These two young men stand out in my mind as being great examples of the good part of sports and there are many other outstanding athletes and scholars and leaders in New Fairfield that we can all learn from. Thank you parents and the New Fairfield school system for all of our wonderful students.
Mrs. Kathie Nelson
MHHS
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